CFDA blessed jewelry designer, actor (lo sono l’amore, The Darjeeling Limited, The Life Aquatic with Steve Zissou), and man-about-town Waris Ahluwalia has style and good fortune in spades. “It must be in the stars,” confesses the dapper Sikh, whose ease of being and humility is perhaps more distinctive than his highly publicized social connections.
What is your background? “I spent the first five years of my life in Punjab, India and then moved to New York.”
What do you do? “I'm an explorer.”
In greater detail “Well, I have a jewelry line called the House of Waris. I'm also an actor.”
Tell me about the turban “I’m a Sikh, its part of my religious tradition to never cut my hair and keep it wrapped in a turban.”
Do you ever take it off? “Yes, when I sleep, shower and sex. Not in that particular order. Also swimming. Oddly all with an “S.”
How did you first start making jewelry? “I never intended on designing jewelry. I had two rings made for myself with 40 diamonds in each ring. I was at Maxfields in LA and the rings caught the attention of the sales staff. The rest is history. I didn't choose this path. Jewelry chose me.”
Do you come from a tradition of jewelry making? “No, it’s not in my family and I’m not formally trained. It must be in the stars.”
What makes jewelry beautiful to you? “It's jewelry and pottery that archeologists find on their digs. It's working in forever that I like— working with objects of beauty that become an intimate part of someone's life. I work with gold that holds history, diamonds that see the future, and rubies that long for love.”
How did you start acting? “Acting found me just as jewelry did. One afternoon Wes asked me to be in his movie. Life Aquatic was the first movie I did and it's been an incredible adventure since then.”
Next film? “It’s a secret for now.”
Tell me about your photo book, “To India, With Love” “We're all here for what is a spark of a moment. If I can bring beauty, hope and joy to the world around me I shall have served my purpose. We acted in response to the attack on Mumbai in 2008 and all proceeds went to the Taj Memorial Public Service Welfare Trust, which is aiding victims and families that suffered through the attacks. We also wanted the milkman to read in his local paper feel that there were people on the other side of the world sending their love and care.”
You’ve dabbled in many things over the years. “Yes, magazines, non-profit work, film production to name a few.”
Have you failed at any? “Yes, on occasion.”
What’s the value of failure? “At the very least failure provides the greatest opportunity for learning. It gives you a chance to stand up and try again. This should sum up how I feel:“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”Theodore Roosevelt, CITIZENSHIP IN A REPUBLIC, Speech at the Sorbonne Paris, France, April 23, 1910
What are you most afraid of? “There’s no reason for allowing fear into our lives. It just holds us back. Our time here is too short to submit to fear. Ok, maybe I’m afraid of the big bad wolf.”
What was the turning point in your career? “I do what makes me happy and nourishes my soul and those along with me on this journey. How the world reacts is not in my hands. It all began on a whim. Then came an idea. The idea became a mission: to find the best artisans in the world and preserve the world of hand craftsmanship—not as museum relics but as a way of life. Hand worked objects of beauty that live alongside the mass produced items of our world. That mission has led to a company. We make objects of beauty for a clientele that appreciates something special. So it was humbling being nominated for the Vogue/CFDA fashion fund last year, and then becoming a member of the CFDA. It’s a special thing to get recognized by your peers and elders.”
You’re always in the media, do you have a private life? “A private life is important to keep one’s sanity and sense of reality. I keep many aspects of my live private, like my home.”
What are you reading right now? “Gates to Buddhist Practice” by Chagdud Tulku; “Orgasms, how to Have them, to give them and keep them coming”, by Lou Paget; “Please Kill Me: The Uncensored Oral History of Punk”, by Legs McNeil.
How is living in New York? “Living in NY is magic.”
Where can you be found? “I love to eat, so I can often be found at restaurants. I love Omen, Café Cluny, Bar Pitti, Raouls, Sant Ambroeus, Sushi Yasuda, Souen.”
What are the other cities you like? “My other two cities are Paris and Rome. My heart belongs to Rome.”
And other favorite travel destinations? “White sand beaches with palm trees swaying overhead and turquoise water nibbling at my toes.”
Who are the fashion designers do you like? “I like tailored suits.”
Which fashion magazines do you read? “Is there a magazine other than Vogue Italia?”