Q - Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa!!! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!!!
Respected Khalsajee, I would like to ask that how does Gurbani clears away all the dualities n confusions of mind? How can we get the answers to our day to day questions about LIFE, i.e. what to do n what not????
For being very specific, i would say that during my college days only, i had taken Amrut n now after completing my studies, being at a very good position in a company, m happy with my life - the ETERNAL BLISS i get after doing the path. But now when it comes actually for a life partner - watever relations are coming - the guys demand a NON GURSIKH GIRL - everyone wants me to groom n leave my AMRUT aside....... but which i never want to do.....So is it WAHEGURUJEE taking my test??? Should i oppose everyone n follow my Sikhism or should i follow my parents advice???? M confused, please give me the correct advice as soon as possible. Even they all are saying - you may continue your Path - do as much Path as you want to do but leave AMRUT:-(
Hope the answer would be justified - solving the problem of a number of girls like me who are very religious by heart but are in a gr8 confusion seeing this mordernization and show-man-ship of today's life!!!!
Thanks n Regards,
A - Wahe Guru Ji ka Khalsa Wahe Guru Ji ki Fateh!
To understand the how Gurbani works, see this article.
You are a daughter of of the Guru. You must be true to yourself and your sacred relationship with him. You have three marriages. First your marriage to the Guru. That is the center and the foundation. Then your marriage to the Sadhsangat. This is where you support and serve your community and they support and serve you. And lastly, your marriage to your husband. When you have your priorities sorted, there can be no problem. Maharaj Ji will bring your mate to you. Your own calibre and frequency will attract the correct man. Maintain your own consciousness. Maintain your own dignity. Never barter your values for benefits. Bring your pain and your problems to Maharaj Ji's feet and leave them there. Let it be his problem, not your problem. Keep up in your daily practice and let Maharaj Ji resolve it for you.
In the Name of the Guru, the Light of every Sikh, and the Holy Naam which holds the world.