Why Sikhs Need More Female Granthis

June 9th, 2009 by Jodha (TheLangarHall.com) Source: thelangarhall.com

khandawoman.jpgMany eons ago, my friend Mewa Singh wrote:

Most Sikh organizations’ backbone tend to be its Kaurs.[link]

[As a side note, kaptaan, where did you go?]  I definitely second that thought.  A common lament that I often hear from some Sikh men is that somehow Sikh women are somehow lacking in terms of their commitment to the faith.  I do not subscribe to this theory, and would actually refute it by Mewa Singh’s observation quoted above.  By far the majority of the activists that I have ever encountered have all been Kaurs, despite the often blind Sikh organizations.  The banal complaints of some Sikh men, for me, are just that – banal complaints.

Still, as an agent of change within the community, I believe a glance at the structural problems within our religious community is warranted.  A recent spate of articles has made me wish to visit the issue of female Granthis

Although through new Sikh organizations, the dynamic of learning only through the Gurdwara is changing, still these organizations are meant to complement, not replace Gurdwara education.  Most information about Sikhi tends to come from the Gurdwara and Khalsa/Punjabi schools.  A recent study by the National Bureau of Economic Research Working Paper on gender and academic achievement at the U.S. Air Force Academy has recently reported that the importance of female mentors may be even more powerful than previously thought.  The joint UC Davis-USAFA study found that by merely replacing a male instructor with a female one can have a strong effect on female achievement, with the power to erase the gender gap entirely.

However, they did not go so far as to say it was women only.  Some men had tremendous impacts and were also able to erase the gender gap.  However, what these men did effectively, the study did not shed light.

What kind of man makes a good mentor? Is it because, as is sometimes suggested, men with daughters make good mentors, having developed greater empathy for the challenges faced by their female students? Or differences in teaching style? The authors unfortunately don’t know much about the Academy’s teaching staff, so for now the enormous impact of professor gender remains a bit of a black box.[link]

While the analogy is not precise, how much better would be female Granthis as mentors in our community?  I know personally, many members of the Sangat look to the Granthis at the Gurdwara in personal guidance and assistance.  Can we even have female Granthis?

Does the lifestyle – often alone, often traveling, with little respect and meager wages – conducive to the community’s social constructions of women’s work?  What are the major shifts that would have to change?  Could existing institutions in Punjab meet this challenge or will this really begin by being a diaspora phenomenon.

The data in other fields reveals that female mentors are important.  Anecdotal information from friends, family, and associates seems to indicate the same.  What are some suggestions to make this a reality?

Comments

It is urgent need of female

It is urgent need of female garanthies.Why there is no effect of preachers on sikh youth?1. The sikh ladies has gone away Sikhism. there is no sikh atmosphere in 99.9% sikh families.The only job is to see only useless serials on tv. They have no time to recite bani and need to learn sikh history. ONE thing crystal clear that every person has some problems. IN spite of to obey the teachings of GURU SAHIBANS, They are doing all those practics which are forbidden in sikhism. IF ladies com to recite bani then it will be better. 2. The prechers and priests are runing after money, either they have not knoweldge of SGGS OR THEY HAVE not. courage to speak the truth. Most of the preachers and priestes have not their lives accorind to what they said.IF the ladies have their lives according the teachings of GURU SAHIBAN then automaticaly the next generation follow them and they can be true sikhs.

Why Sikhs Need More Female Granthis

The point made is correct. While it would be futile to argue who is better - a male or female granthi, we do need both. In my view the biggest obstacle to having more female granthis is the environment that we have crested for employees in Gurdwaras. One only has to look at the kind of newspaper headlines that our Gurdwara Committees make in India and abroad will easily explain why a female would not be interested in joining a Gurdwara as a granthi. Let me illustrate. A lot of Sikh women are involved in religious prachar activities. In all voluntary organisations - Sukhmani Sahib Societies, Istri Satsang Sabhas, Akhand Kirtani Jatha, Dodra, ...... name any organisation - you will find 50% or more female workers/ pracharaks/ kirtanias. Ask any of the Bibiji (who you think is fit to be a granthi) will she consider being a granthi in a gurdwara, you will know the reasons. I dont think we need to argue or prove the need. The problem is of creating an enabling environment.

Female Granthis

Granthis in gurudwaras are greatly respected. Making female granthis would reduce the gender gap and ofcourse will help to increase the status of women(especially in Punjab).

BIBI AMRO

We need to read our history of Sikh women, such as Bebe Nanaki who was one of the first to follow Guru Nanak. And Bibi Amro who REGULARLY read Gurbani from the Granth. Read history and tell us why can't women be granthis?

Female Guru Granthi's

In 1976 shortly after the birth of our dear, Guru Mustuk Singh Khalsa, the Siri Singh Sahib ji( Yogi Bhajan) appointed me Guru Granthi for our main Gurdwara in Los Angeles. I served for over 20 years,,,,,overseeing the maintanance of the SGGS, prakash, sukhasan, the vaak of the Guru at all our Kirtan Programs. I taught classes to our children in Sikh Dharma, and taught classes in Gurmukhi reading, how to take a hukam. I also oversaw the weekly Siri Akhand Path that was held there for our LA Community. It was a wonderful time and a wonderful way to serve. It was a touchstone that was a constant in my life and gave me deep roots of support that carried me in my life. In the West the women are often very identified with spirituality and with service to the community. It has always been a surprise to me to see how the culture of Punjab has mostly made it undesireable for woman to serve as Granthi's and Kirtanee's. Woman are supposed to be mothers and caretakers of the home. But, this will be changing now that the Western values are so strongly sweeping away the last vestiges of India's graceful woman. We will see the intractable managers of the Sikh Gurdwara's change and we will see the grace of the Khalsa woman become more apparant and her leadership will surface.. Woman felt they had to compete with the men managers, but that never could work. When woman come into touch with the support of the Guru and the self respect that it gives to her, she will be stronger and more sought out as a spiritual being of great value to our community and to our Gurdwara's.

The More the Better

It is a general observation that all major faiths in India r flourishing due to their women devotees . Amongst these ie. Hinduism , Buddhism , Jainism & Sikhism , Sikhism is the only religion which gives FORMAL COMPLETE EQUALITY to women . All other religions place women at much lower level , almost each of these religions is clear about women not capable of getting emancipation ( liberation/ moksha ) . But it is sad that Sikhs has not built upon this advantage . Rather , they have started following Brahminical rituals like dowry , lavish marriages & r leading in crime like FEMALE FOETICIDE . It is high time for Sikhs to show leadership qualities once again & take the lead in appointing women Granthis . How about 33% reservation for women Granthis in Gurudwaras for a start ?

I couldn't agree more!

Sikh's should empower their great woman (and youth)!

WOMEN GRANTHIS

IN OUR RELIGION , BOTH MEN AND WOMEN HAVE BEEN GIVEN EQUAL RESPECT BY THE GURUS .SO I FULLY SUPPORT THE DEMAND OF MORE WOMEN GRANTHIS . THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO REASON IN STOPPING THEM TO BECOME GRANTHIS.

baba hor pahenan khusi khuar jit pahine tan peeriae maan me chha

proper attire and simplecity is must, i never heard anybody have objection to lady granthi. BARU SAHIB is a best place to traine them.

Guru has address this issue long time ago

Our community needs to get back on its roots it shocks me to even see that we are debating or even discussing about such things...."from her are made prince" When will the truth be taught i ask...i guess we will see; this website has brought issues as such up and i hope many Sikhs are seeing the light.....Raj kargeh ka Khalsa the truth is very neer to victory

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