It’s cool to be Sikh, but cooler if you wear a turban

July 24th, 2009 by Tinderjit Kaur Lallie Source: www.emgonline.co.uk

There maybe an answer to the continuing dilemma for the Sikh community – a lack of men wanting to wear a turban.

Well the answer is simple, make it cool to have a turban, create some positive vibes around this important issue of identity.

Recently we have seen an increase in the amount of Bollywood artists such as Akshay Kumar (right) that have embraced off screen dress in this breath-taking attire.

The turban definitely makes a man look handsome, shows someone you can trust and if I am perfectly honest dare I say it ‘sexy and drop dread gorgeous’ (– I am just hoping my editor does not edit this line!!!)

Recently in Leicester, a project lead by Trolochan Singh Virk there was a turban tying competition – how cool is that
 
The Sikh Gurdwara Prabandhak Committee (SGPC) of Amritsar and humanitarian organisation Akaal Purkh Ki Fauj also organised not only a turban tying initiative but they took it a step further, they held an amazing ‘pageant’ and called it  Mr Singh International.

It was a low-key affair but later versions, but there are already plans to roll this our across Punjab and Delhi, with a expectation of  participation of Bollywood stars.

The SGPC has declared April 14, the day of harvest festival Vaisakhi, as "International Sikh Turban Day."

“We are dismayed that more and more youths are refusing to grow their beard or wear the turban, which are sacred symbols of the Sikh religion,” said H.S. Hanspal, Sikh representative in the National Commission for Minorities.

According to Hanspal, many young Sikhs say that tying a turban every day, which may take up to 10 minutes, is too awkward for today’s world

Other boys apparently fear becoming the “odd man out’’ and getting taunted by their peers. Many Sikh parents say they have stopped insisting their sons wear the traditional headgear.

Various Gurdwara Prabandhak committees, therefore, are planning to send volunteers to schools to teach boys how to tie the turban and counsel them on the importance of wearing a turban the project be lead by The Miinority Commission

Whilst many would be deeply hurt that the Holy Turban should not be used in such a manner, I feel it is time for action to allow young Sikh men to be towed back to line – they will thank us in the long run.

Dalbeer Singh of the Delhi Gurdwara Prabandhak Committee has called for a new fashion magazine.

“We need a Sikh fashion magazine to promote uncut hair, the beard and the turban as cool and clean. We should use persons like Manmohan Singh as role models,’’ he told The Telegraph, this I totally agree with.

One of the first people such a magazine may think of featuring is Paramdeep Singh, 23, first runner-up at Mr Singh International 2009. “I want to send a message that a complete Sikh is more handsome than those who trim or cut their hair,” Paramdeep said.

For Sikhs, the turban became a “robe of honour” which was endorsed in 1699, during the time of Guru Gobind Singh, the 10th Guru, a scholar said.

Sikh turbans are different from other kinds but have their own variations. The commonest is the “peaked turban” Manmohan Singh wears. The length of the cloth varies from 6 to 8 metres, and the most popular colours are white, deep blue and saffron.

Sikh boys start wearing a keski (mini-turban) or patka at a very young age, often switching to the turban around the age of 12.

So remember boy and girls should you choose – its cool to be Sikh and even cooler if you remember Waheguru gave you long hair for a reason, so respect it.

And finally I cannot believe that every day some Sikh battle with nature as they shave their beards and everyday nature wins…………….is there not a lesson to be learned?

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SIKHISM IS NEITHER FOR

SIKHISM IS NEITHER FOR OFFENCE NOR FOR DEFENCE BUT FOR SELF RESPECT.IT IS LORD GOD'S RELIGION. HAVING VIRTUES OF LORD GOD. WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA, WAHEGURU JI KE FATEH.

GuruKirpaNaal Ji... It is

GuruKirpaNaal Ji... It is very good to meet you as well. I wish you all the best. Even though you have God parents, however God knows best, and we shell give the due respect to our biological parents that they deserve. It is very important to love our parents and acknowledge their hard work and sacrifice for us. We are born to particular mom and dad according to our karma and it is in the Name of greater good. Even though we don't remember past Karma, we must take accountability for the parents we have given, it is also called taking Karmic accountability; it means we take responsibility for having the parents we have. There are usually strong emotions for family members however it is very important to forgive them insistently because we live instance by instance as Our Great Guru Maharaj has pointed out in Gurbani. And if your parents don't want you to take Amrit then you need to listen to them. Guru is always with us with or without Great Amrit, parents always love and want best for their children, even though they might not be able to show the love adequately. ~Love and Light~ SAtyaJit Singh

Isn't title of this article

Isn't title of this article misleading?

Since someone who doesn't wear turban is not a Sikh, what's point of saying that it's cooler if you wear a turban?

Na tu mareya nahin ??

Na tu mareya nahin ??

Harman Ji

Lets not be to violent now, we have to talk to PCJ 'ji' and peacefully work things out, right?

kaava'n kahe dhaggay nehi

kaava'n kahe dhaggay nehi marday...

Having hair is Human

I must say this that Hair is not integral part of a Sikh alone. Keeping and having hair is being Human. Hair is not granted to Sikhs but to Hindus, Muslims, Christians or any other person....to every human... So next time, we should say we keep hair beucase we are Humans. bhul chuk maaf

Next time, you should also

Next time, you should also mention that keeping your nails uncut is being human... Of course, we know that hair and nails are made up of the same protein. So, let's not start that nails are dead and hair are not....

PCJ Ji

~ Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh ~ When one does not want to follow the path of Sikhism he/she will make whatever excuse possible to defend their opinion...... Keeping your kesh is very important as they are a part of us and our body. When it comes to our nails, yes you are right, nails and our kesh are made up of the same protein and are a part of our body as well, however, have you seen your nails, when they grow for about a week how nasty and disgusting they look. All that dirt goes underneath them and they turn black. Do you really want to grow that stuff? As for our lovely kesh we can tie them up and do keski to take care of them....... No disrespect at all sir as I am thirteen and you sound older than me although when it comes to religion their is no age just knowledge, passion, love, and faith. ~ Please forgive me if I said something wrong but this is what I truely believe. ~ GuruKirpaNaal you will also understand one day that....... ~ Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

GuruKirpaNaal

GuruKirpaNaal Ji,

Congratulations, you are pretty smart for a thirteen-year-old child...

You have said nothing wrong...

You are right, there is nothing wrong with not staying the way the Lord created us, e.g. in your case you believe that there is nothing wrong with clipping nails. The same way, there is nothing wrong with not keeping any part of our body in the original form.

By the way, I am not a Sikh. Therefore, I am not using this as an excuse...

PCJ Ji

Then why are you here criticizing almost every article and sharing your not so kind thoughts, sir? It is great if someone is here from a different culture to learn more about who we are but when it comes to criticizing our religion, culture, and its people on our own community site we don't usually tolerate such stuff. Just letting you know sir.

GuruKirpaNaal Ji, Everybody

GuruKirpaNaal Ji,

Everybody should have tolerance for logically correct argument.

I don't criticize your religion. I simply try to say what makes logical sense. Some people may look at it as criticizing your religion. If people think I am wrong, then they are welcome to provide logical counter-argument...

Here is my logical

Here is my logical explanation: First your arguing with an thirteen year old, your ego just won't give up. You should be encouraging this kid and be happy for him/her that he/she is very enthusiastic about a spiritual path. Tell me PCJ What spiritual path you have found that resonates with your intellect, Do you have a Guru, or a Savior or you follow any spiritual teachings?

Satyajit Singh Ji....

~ Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! ~ I thank you for the kind words as it is people like you that kept sikhi alive even after all that our fathers, mother, brothers, and sisters had gone through. May guru sahib keep you happy, may guru sahib keep us all happy! ~ Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! ~

GuruKirpanaal ji...

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh! You are welcome, it is great to see that you are so passionate about Great Guru Sahab at such a young age, you are an inspiration to all the kids. ~ Love and Light ~ Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh!!!Satyajit Singh

Satyajit Singh Ji....

~ Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! ~ I don't believe that I deserve all that praising. My family is actually not that much into sikhi or maybe not at all. I guess I am the only one thats a vegetarian, grows my hair, and is dying to take amrit. But I believe that I have to make the most of it as its a test from guru sahib to see whether I am a true gursikh or not. For me this is just one of those "you always want what you don't have" moments. May guru sahib bless us all with sikhi and amrit di daat! ~ Guru Ki Fateh Ji! ~

GuruKirpaNaal ji... Since

GuruKirpaNaal ji... Since I'm considerably older, I should have an advice for you,...but I don't, just Loving Gurbani and doing secret Simran is all Guru ask from a kid. Do whatever your parents say, and love and forgive everyone by noticing that everyone is born with a limited mind but be always alert and don't trust everyone. One of the most important practice of being a full Khalsa is to be alert, and not give anyone a chance to do something stupid to us. Simran makes us alert, it make us live in the moment, and it is easy but sometimes not so easy. We are blessed to have few Enlightened people living among us. Their speeches and insights helps enormously to stay and become present, since they are connected to the greater collective consciousness, God, Waheguru. Dr David R Hawkins and Ekhart Tolle and Caroline Myss for example. Their lectures and talks have helped me tremendously. It helped me to understand Gurbani and helped me understand the present moment, and helped me understand issues such as Karma, suffering, forgiveness, mind, compassion, Enlightenment(enlightened people in history), religion, difference between force and power, our body etc. ~Love and Light~ SAtyajit Singh

Satyajit Singh Ji...... All I can say is Waheguru, Waheguru.....

~ Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fathe! ~ I think guru sahib has blessed me enough by having me bump into you through this site. I will always keep what you have given me, with me at all times. I don't think I will ever come across anyone that will make me want to change my mind because there is no one around me besides guru sahib. Truth is I live in Canada- most multicultural country in the city of Brampton where it is a miracle if you see someone else other than a sikh. The biggest gurudawara in North America is just a twelve minute drive from my house and I know an amritdhari family there who are like my god parents. They are willing to do anything for me and I love them very much. They are the ones that had inspired me to take this path to begin with. ~ Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! ~~~ Simran Kaur ~~~

I am not arguing with him. I

I am not arguing with him. I am simply advising.

As far as the guru and savior goes, I have concluded from my experience with religions that there can not be any better guru or savior than The Lord. I follow spiritual teachings that make sense at the same time. I pretty much learn from everything and everybody, even the people I don't agree with. In fact, I learn more from the people I don't agree with. When I come across someone whose behavior doesn't logically makes sense, I tend not to be like such person and when I come across someone whose behavior makes sense, I tend to be more like that person.

When someone follows a religion, s/he is bound to be wrong as no religion is perfect.

By the way, there is no such thing as savior in Sikhism. Regardless what you do, in Sikhism, there is nothing that says that there will be a guru sitting there next to dharamraj to save you...

PCJ Ji

So you believe in Dharmraj but not the guru that created him?!? I would just like to add that Sikhism may not make sense to you as you have not been born into it and neither have you studied it in depth. However, for us gursikhs that have adopted the way of life, have been born into it, and respect it all know what makes sense to us. It will be great for you to know that a group of atheists and their leader wrote a letter to our akal takht saying that they believe that we are actually the most "real" religion out there. We don't share stories about Adam and Eve being the first people on Earth who ate this apple and gave birth to us all or that a human gave birth to an elephant. We tend to be "real" and straight forward, we take the road of honesty. For us as sikhs it was a true honour to get a note from atheists; people who don't believe in god saying that our religon is really something. What could be a greater reward for sikhs then finding out that a grou[ of atheists noticed our religion (we are not the biggest population) and have learned a thing or two that will always stay with them.

GuruKirpaNaal Ji, Nobody

GuruKirpaNaal Ji,

Nobody other than The Lord Himself created anything. I am not sure if Sikhism actually says that any of the gurus created Dharmraj.

I don't believe in Dharamraj as being an evaluator of our karmas. I simply believe that there is a natural process for our soul to go where it's supposed to go after death and nobody knows for sure exactly what happens to our soul after death.

So, I don't believe anybody can do anything at all the time of the death. No guru and no prophet can save us then. What matters is what we have been doing all our lives and we can not assume that following a religion we are doing good things in life. There are many bad things people do in their lives only because they are following a religion and they don't even realize that they are doing something bad because they can not think in any other way.

Correction Sir....

*Kaur.....*her.....*female

Sorry puttar, I assumed you

Sorry puttar, I assumed you were a boy. I apologize :)

PCJ Ji

No need to apologize, as it was a mistake.

I disagree

We keep hair because we are Sikh. Being a human means a lot of things. For those who are not Sikh it is very normal they cut hair and it's understandable. They believe in different teachings. Anyway i welcome this initiative with the Sikh fashion magazine even if Kesh is not about fashion or beauty. Today's generations need to feel comfortable in the society they live in so we need to create a positive image of the Turban. Otherwise there will be less and less Turban as time goes by. Being a good Sikh and a good looking Sikh can go paralel.

Dear Person With The Username "Lassi"

I would like to disagree with the fact that others are taught differently about the value of kesh. Have you not noticed that the founder of each and every religion has had long lovely kesh. EX: Jesus, Lord Ram, etc. Please check out a video on youtube called "kesh unshorn hair" and you will see what I am talking about. ~GuruKirpaNaal~ when you watch this video you will see that kesh is a sign of spirituality not religion (there is a difference).

GuruKirpaNaal Ji

Yes i have noticed as i know a bit about many religions but let's not mix things. The fact that many people especially in the past including founders of world religions had long hair and beard doesn't mean they were "tought" about that. Traditions and religion are two different things. It was more of a cultural thing than a spiritual or religious. Other religions like Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, etc. did not teach about uncut hair the way Sikhism does. And for example Orthodox Jews or Samurais shave their hair on the top of their head and Native Americans shave their face which absolutelly does not fit into the cathegory of "Kesh". Let's not forget that other people believe in different things and Sikh teachings about Kesh may mean nothing to them and we need to respect that as they need to respect that Kesh is important for Sikhs. I guess first we should convince Sikhs about the importance of Kesh instead of lecturing followers of other religions about it.

Dear Person With The Username "Lassi"... Well Written... But...

~ Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! ~ A lot of things in Sikhism relate back to Hindu mythology and so does the slaying of kesh. Here it goes........There once was a princess named Rukmani and her brother Rukman. They weren't from the wealthiest Royal family but they were Royal. Rukmani was in love with Lakshmun and he loved her just as much. The problem was that Lakshmun was already married and Rukmun; Rukmani's brother didn't like to see her with a married man. (Kings being married to more than one person was normal back then but when Lakshmun had married his original wife he promised her that he wouldn't ever leave her, he had to keep his promise as a lot of people had witnessed that moment). Rukman would always intefer in Rukmani and Lakshmun's personal life and they would ignore him. But one day Lakshmun was so sick of Rukmun that he captured him and was planning on killing him. Rukmani found out that her brother was kidnapped by Lakshmun so she told him not to kill him. Lakshmun loved her too much to disobey her orders so he didn't end up killing Rukman. Although, they had both agreed that something had to be done to teach Rukman his lesson. So Rukmani came up with the randomest idea ever; cutting his hair. (Remember that at that time no one ever even thought about that as it was just to abnormal, it is like someone trimming their eyelashes). They had agreed on that idea and cut his hair. After that Rukmani ran to her brother and hugged him and said see I saved you, Lakshmun would have killed you by now. He pushed her away and told her that cutting his hair was killing him. He said he would've rather died than have seen the cutting of his hair. He ran away from his Kingdom and disappeared, before leaving he told her that he could never show his face to anyone again and that she was no longer his sister instead she was his murderer. Soon enough Kingdoms from all around India and Pakistan= (one country at that time) starting using that as a punishment. However, when European explorers were exploring the world people were amazed by their looks. What they were, their skin colour, the way they spoke, but most of all their hair. They all had cut hair and trimmed beards, some "Indians" questioned whether they were all punished or not?!?!?. History is endless however, the point here is that the slaying of kesh first started as a punishment but soon enough was started to "perfect" ones overall look. Men started to trim their beards if their hair wasn't the same length and slowly moving away from that they started to cut their head-hair as well. It was no longer a punishment but actually a "style." Then came equality between men and women so women slowly started cutting their hair as well but that was not too long ago. ~ Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! ~~~ Simran Kaur ~~~

Very true!

We should create a fashion magazine. Perhaps many boys fear that they'll look like the "old guys" if they wear one. I think that when our Guru ji gave us a turban, he did not want us and the future generations to feel offended or think it an "old" fashion. Making a turban sound cool will gear their negative prospects away. It's human nature---yes, we're humans---to fit in and if we don't like something, that emotion will carry and diminish it entirely. Very true. P/S: how about we use younger role models for the magazine? A hip vibe without oldie stuff...basically, isn't Manmohan singh a little too old?? Not terrifying, but nice, genial, and "in"---as in a good prospect. Get some people experienced in fashion yet stay true to Sikhism. :) we don't want it to be dominated by the old people young boys are avoiding! :)

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