Satnaam Ji
Go On the www.satnaam.info website and read the gyan on there. It is what got me through great tests in my life.
The key is to see all as God's play- all is just karam. Live the Truth that it's all an illusion, that the truth lies in No Image, in Nothingness- in the universe of Nothing..
One of the posters friends were smoking weed- it's all God's hukam. See everyone as an image of God and you'll begin to understand the game Gods playing around you and see the tests he's put forward for you to pass..