Different Caste - what to do
Posted: Wed May 08, 2019 12:35 am
SSA everyone. I would like to start by saying this is an extremely difficult situation for me and I would appreciate honest feedback
So I am Ahluwalia, my girlfriend is Jatt
We are at the point we would like to pursue marriage however her father is very traditional and wants her to marry only a Jatt. He won’t even allow her to talk to males unless it’s work related. We both have good positions in the medical field and everyone besides the castes is great. My parents would have no problem. However she brought up the idea to her father about someone at work and her dad ended the conversation abruptly saying it would be dishonorably to his own parents if he let that happen. She did not have the courage to pursue further discourse. Is it better to end this relationship or would you suggest me being more aggressive and approaching her father. He seems to be very traditional and I don’t think I’ll be able to convince him to accept me. We have been together for 4 years.
So I am Ahluwalia, my girlfriend is Jatt
We are at the point we would like to pursue marriage however her father is very traditional and wants her to marry only a Jatt. He won’t even allow her to talk to males unless it’s work related. We both have good positions in the medical field and everyone besides the castes is great. My parents would have no problem. However she brought up the idea to her father about someone at work and her dad ended the conversation abruptly saying it would be dishonorably to his own parents if he let that happen. She did not have the courage to pursue further discourse. Is it better to end this relationship or would you suggest me being more aggressive and approaching her father. He seems to be very traditional and I don’t think I’ll be able to convince him to accept me. We have been together for 4 years.