sush89 wrote:Satshrikaal / Namaste ,
I am doing PhD in engineering. Few months ago , I fell in love with girl who belongs to Sikhism. I want to marry her.
I know she also feeling the same. As a true religious , her first question was the same as for every girls " She dont want to change her religion after marriage". I truly respect her beliefs. But she is afraid to tell this to her family. As her father might be not agreed about this relation ship. . I only know that i love her so much. Is this a sin "if a sikh girl will marry to hindu boy" ??
Also, Can Sikhs are agreed to marry his daughters to Hindus community ??
If not, Are we supposed to follow this only " if you want to marry a hindu boy or sikh girl you should be born in their community ?? "
Please help , I am totally lost.
Romesh Kumar wrote:Sush89,
This is not that uncommon nor common as well.
If you are Punjabi and from same/equivalent caste of her own then it is relatively easier.
All the best.
sush89 wrote:Brother Satshrikaal /Namaste,
Thanks for your reply . As i said ,I truly respect her religious beliefs.And my family is also ready to accept her.So Where the question of sacrifice ? I am not supporter or believer to change our self for some one. I believe if you love some one then you have to respect her feelings. Even I want that she will continue her religion after the marriage and i am ready to support her at every phase of life. No need to change. But the problem is " Is her parents allowed her to marriage in Hindu Family " She is afraid to ask to her parents because her father might be angry about inter religion.
sush89 wrote: Can Sikhs are agreed to marry his daughters to Other community ??
Nihal Singh Kanakpuria wrote:sush89 wrote:Brother Satshrikaal /Namaste,
Thanks for your reply . As i said ,I truly respect her religious beliefs.And my family is also ready to accept her.So Where the question of sacrifice ? I am not supporter or believer to change our self for some one. I believe if you love some one then you have to respect her feelings. Even I want that she will continue her religion after the marriage and i am ready to support her at every phase of life. No need to change. But the problem is " Is her parents allowed her to marriage in Hindu Family " She is afraid to ask to her parents because her father might be angry about inter religion.
I knew there is no love here, had there been a iota of love you would hv said yes i am ready to adopt Sikh faith for her , ready to do ANYTHING that reduces relationship stress for her.
However this is a case of hindu guy getting married to a Sikh lady. its not about you getting married to the lady you love.
Nihal
Nihal Singh Kanakpuria wrote:Sush,
Would your parents adopt Sikh faith if she marries into your family ? since you want her parents to become Hindus coz ur adopting sikh faith isnt it .
Never before have i heard meaningless arguments and with every post its clearer that you love your faith more than you love her and off course you want her to maintain her faith (so u can tell people you have a sikh wife) but you dont hv the courage to adopt your wife's faith.
-Nihal
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