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by gurmail
Tue Nov 06, 2018 12:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why does intercaste marriage halt love from flourishing?
Replies: 2
Views: 12668

Re: Why does intercaste marriage halt love from flourishing?

Caste or race does not matter in sikhi at all. It must be difficult for your parents to accept. You have two option. There may be others. 1. Marry her anyway. 2. Work on your parents and persuade them Try second option. Persist. Don't give in. Else you will regret it all your life. Love only happens...
by gurmail
Fri Sep 28, 2018 9:56 pm
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Vengeance
Replies: 5
Views: 13929

Re: Vengeance

It was an attack on the holiest of holies. A place dear to sikhs. It has been attacked many times in the Sikh history. As kids we are brought up with past stories. It was a Sikh holy day and ordinary people were visiting. In the cross fire many died. How different was is from Jaliawalla Bagh? Was ki...
by gurmail
Fri Sep 28, 2018 9:20 pm
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Ghosts or no ghosts?
Replies: 33
Views: 93276

Re: Ghosts or no ghosts?

If any of you are seeing things , hearing stuff etc then I suggest you see a doctor at the earliest. In my limited experience it is the first sign of schizophrenic condition. At this early stage it is treatable. So don't think twice and see your doctor like pronto. In my capacity as a manager, I hav...
by gurmail
Wed Sep 19, 2018 1:17 pm
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: KARAM/KARMI Meaning???
Replies: 9
Views: 16522

Re: KARAM/KARMI Meaning???

My understanding of karma and past lives is different. In a strict literal sense I believe that we are born once and die once and that's the end of it. Karma means action. We live and should lead life of actions every day throughout our lives. The it makes perfect sense. Our condition at any point i...
by gurmail
Thu Sep 06, 2018 9:24 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: parikarma
Replies: 11
Views: 24935

Re: parikarma

Classic case of too close to the coal face, or can't see the wood from the trees. Simply put:-
" Guru Granth ji manio pargat guran ki deh"
by gurmail
Wed Aug 29, 2018 12:22 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Marrying 'Second' Cousin
Replies: 2
Views: 3019

Re: Marrying 'Second' Cousin

Not blood issue, as you said. Could be cultural that is surname may be same as your's. Could be some underlying family issues; like some family dynamics due to undercurrents etc. I would just talk to my parents.
by gurmail
Tue Aug 28, 2018 4:18 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: NEW SIKH DEBATE
Replies: 1
Views: 6274

Re: NEW SIKH DEBATE

If you want to debate science of eating meat, drinking, and having sex then I suggest you find yourself a biologist who should be able to go into all sort of wonderful and beautiful ways the creation works. Then he'll say that this is all due to evolution. A complete random process. At this point, I...
by gurmail
Wed Aug 15, 2018 5:46 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Gold Kara
Replies: 5
Views: 5514

Re: Gold Kara

Gold Kara or not. This question is best answered by the wearer. The series of questions are:- 1. Why Wear a Kara? 2. What design of Kara?, round cross section, elliptical triangular etc. 3. What colour? Grey, silver, gold etc. At each stage look at the answer and ask yourself why that answer and not...
by gurmail
Fri Mar 23, 2018 5:45 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Disturbing Developments in Pakistan
Replies: 0
Views: 2885

Disturbing Developments in Pakistan

I came across some disturbing new of goings on in Pakistan against Sikhs and Pakhtuns reported in a Pakistani on line news item. The link is:- https://tribune.com.pk/story/1667128/1-slandering-pashtuns-sikhs-textbook-publisher-told-issue-public-apology/ They seem to be teaching that Sikhs and Pakhtu...
by gurmail
Sun Feb 18, 2018 4:54 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Can Non Sikh Couple Can do marraige in Gurudwara
Replies: 1
Views: 1475

Re: Can Non Sikh Couple Can do marraige in Gurudwara

You need to believe in Guru Granth Sahib, which you say you do, to get married by Anand Kara ceremony. I suggest you two Speak with your local Gurdwara and arrange a date. What is all this Manglik/dosh stuff?