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by gurmail
Mon Feb 13, 2017 12:37 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Regarding Songs and Eating
Replies: 3
Views: 2145

Re: Regarding Songs and Eating

On Songs: when listening to music emotions are stirred up or when listening to songs same happens then one is reminded of the beauty of creator through that of the creation. This is particularly so when you hear a good singer able to infuse the sound with happiness or sorrow. Creator has made such b...
by gurmail
Thu Jan 26, 2017 10:08 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Come to Gurdwara in shorts
Replies: 12
Views: 32203

Re: Come to Gurdwara in shorts

Langar in gurdwara and even outside, e.g. Food given out during nagar Kirtan by individuals, belongs to the Guru. There is no distinction between individuals on any basis, none of this rich or poor, believer or nonbeliever. There is no bargain. It is not a bribe, definitely not. Quite the opposite. ...
by gurmail
Sat Dec 03, 2016 2:27 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Why 'Dasam Granth' validity debate at all
Replies: 13
Views: 7705

Re: Why 'Dasam Granth' validity debate at all

I think it is a bad idea to bring comparisons with Gita/Mahabharata. Mahabharata is a katha a story but Gita is a religious book. It is like Guru Nanak's janam sakhi and Japji. Clearly there is no comparison. The problem comes when some want to give Dasam Granth some status in the Durban Sahib. Some...
by gurmail
Mon Nov 28, 2016 7:27 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Why Khalistan is a BAD Idea..
Replies: 34
Views: 27672

Re: Why Khalistan is a BAD Idea..

Khalistan is not possible until People of Punjab are provided with a real believable alternative. It has to be something that will bring a sustainable change in their life. It has to be clearly seen and not just words and slogans engineered to fill the space.
by gurmail
Fri Nov 25, 2016 7:24 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Why Khalistan is a BAD Idea..
Replies: 34
Views: 27672

Re: Why Khalistan is a BAD Idea..

I get it now. The idea is to free Baluchistan, Kashmir, Sindh, Assam, few more states say Pakhtunistan, and then create Khalistan. Is the idea to merge east Punjab with west Punjab? What will be done with odd 50 to 80 million Punjabi muslims? We could share. But muslims will be majority!! And they h...
by gurmail
Mon Nov 21, 2016 1:23 pm
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Why Khalistan is a BAD Idea..
Replies: 34
Views: 27672

Re: Why Khalistan is a BAD Idea..

I never have seen a manifesto or political discourse. The only thing I have heard are some quotes from Guru Granth Sahib or ardas. There is always harking back to Ranjit Singh's kingdom. Well!!. It is all in Pakistan. Is the idea to take over Pakistan? So in the Indian Punjab what is the grand plan ...
by gurmail
Sat Nov 19, 2016 4:03 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Same Surname Marriage
Replies: 7
Views: 6642

Re: Same Surname Marriage

I assume you want and need your parent's blessing. I should leave out the Sant guy for now. Keep it in the family. You need information to be able to state that there can be no chance of, to put it bluntly, blood mixing between the two families. On the quiet make a family tree with having surnames o...
by gurmail
Wed Nov 16, 2016 10:41 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Same Surname Marriage
Replies: 7
Views: 6642

Re: Same Surname Marriage

Incidentallly I assume you want peace in the family and marriage blessed by parents on both side. Otherwise, since you are in the U.K. You can just go ahead. Try your grand parents, if still alive, explain the there is no blood link. Does your father have a sister? If so then get her on your side. W...
by gurmail
Mon Nov 14, 2016 6:38 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Same Surname Marriage
Replies: 7
Views: 6642

Re: Same Surname Marriage

In certain tribe in Punjab, Haryana marriage within clan, i.e. Boy and girl with same surname, is considered to be incestuous. This is re-enforced when the boy and girl originate from the same area/vicinity. This probably was true in antiquinity, that there probably was a common ancestor going back ...
by gurmail
Fri Oct 21, 2016 10:42 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Why Khalistan is a BAD Idea..
Replies: 34
Views: 27672

Re: Why Khalistan is a BAD Idea..

One main reason for Khalistan being a bad idea is their manifesto. They never defined how people's life was going to improve. From their pronouncements it seemed to me that a theocracy was on offer, with feudalistic governance. Feudal lords would have run around in Chola/pyjamas with long swords dan...