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by gurmail
Sat Mar 21, 2020 5:48 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Will Waheguru ever forgive me? Please help!!
Replies: 2
Views: 2110

Re: Will Waheguru ever forgive me? Please help!!

We all take a wrong turn, some are small deviations others are large. These happen all the time. Little mistakes and big mistakes continue to happen. We travel this road called life, each along our own trajectory in space and time. The important thing is to learn from our mistakes and don't repeat t...
by gurmail
Fri Nov 29, 2019 4:41 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Meaning of my Name
Replies: 1
Views: 1210

Re: Meaning of my Name

I think it is amalgamation of two words. Taj and Jeet. Taj mean crown and Jeet means victory or winner.
by gurmail
Sun Oct 06, 2019 4:27 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Role of Family members in Sikhism
Replies: 4
Views: 15102

Re: Role of Family members in Sikhism

Husband and wife are one. There is no first and no second.
I am puzzled. Parents don't want to move and they don't want you to move. Then how does first/second come into the equation?
Is it that Your husband sends financial help to his parents? Is that the root cause of difficulties in your marriage?
by gurmail
Fri Aug 23, 2019 10:00 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Question about Amrit Vela
Replies: 9
Views: 6745

Re: Question about Amrit Vela

In my limited understanding, Guru Granth Sahib is not prescriptive. There is no pill to be taken three times a day with meal. There is no list of rules laid out neatly to follow. It is not a text book on physics or cosmology. It is a spiritual writing and best treated as such. Amrit vela is a specif...
by gurmail
Fri Aug 16, 2019 6:09 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Do we listen to the Bhagat as much as the Guru?
Replies: 4
Views: 9346

Re: Do we listen to the Bhagat as much as the Guru?

My understanding is that writings of bhagats saints are included in the Guru Granth Sahib is because Guru Arian Devji agreed with what is said. Therefore it is Guru's bani.
by gurmail
Fri Aug 09, 2019 1:31 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Health and meat
Replies: 5
Views: 2836

Re: Health and meat

Try corn roti. It is really nice. Bajri roti is also good, stronger than wheat. Get a blood test for vitamins. You are likely to need vitamin supplements, especially iron. Soya milk is a very good alternative. I know number of people on these alternatives. Protein powder like whey protein or vegetab...
by gurmail
Fri Jul 19, 2019 3:44 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Wedding Ceremony
Replies: 4
Views: 3373

Re: Wedding Ceremony

Just as an aside, under U.K. Law, Sikhs are classified as a distinct race. A white or a black Sikh person therefore belong to Sikh race. Thus, discrimination against a Sikh is racial and prosecuted as such.
by gurmail
Sun Jan 27, 2019 4:34 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: sikh scholars/preachers misleading new sikh followers
Replies: 3
Views: 3476

Re: sikh scholars/preachers misleading new sikh followers

Do not distress yourself. Read Guru Granth Sahib. Understand it. Everything included in the Granth Sahib, in my humble, opinion flows down from mool mantra. Therefore nothing should contradict it. You can apply the same test to dasam Granth.it should not contradict Sri Guru Granth Sahib. If it appea...
by gurmail
Mon Dec 10, 2018 11:46 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Advice please after bad experience
Replies: 4
Views: 4058

Re: Advice please after bad experience

Appalling behaviour by this Gurdwara. Please look for another Gurdwara in Handsworth.
by gurmail
Tue Nov 06, 2018 1:54 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Guidance needed
Replies: 1
Views: 3260

Re: Guidance needed

You have to tell him how you feel and then the rest is up to him. Keep it simple and just say what you have written