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by loveforsikhi
Mon Aug 03, 2020 4:16 am
Forum: Gurbani Kirtan
Topic: Sheet music for kirtan:
Replies: 1
Views: 512

Re: Sheet music for kirtan:

Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Wahegri ji ki fateh. Hello everyone. Does anyone have resources to get sheet music for kirtan pieces? I play the flute and was hoping to be able to find some sheet music, but it has proven difficult. If there is sheet music written for bansuri that would work for the flute I ...
by loveforsikhi
Wed Jul 15, 2020 12:44 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Weird dreams
Replies: 2
Views: 2114

Re: Weird dreams

wahguruji ka khalsa waheguruji ki fate Saad Sangatji, I keep having this weird dream that I cut my hair. Kind of like a nightmare tbh. I have recently took amrit. It has been just over a year. Can anyone please help me! Thank you Waheguruji ka khalsa waheguruji ki fateh Have you tried simran before...
by loveforsikhi
Thu Jul 02, 2020 12:36 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: URGENT HELP needed
Replies: 4
Views: 2774

Re: URGENT HELP needed

I need dome help and guidance please. I have no one yo talk to to gain advice on thus matter. Within the last 3 years I have lost both parents and sadly, asking my uncles, aunties is a no. I am the only child and I have 3 young children. My wife and I have been together for over 18years and we have...
by loveforsikhi
Sun Dec 08, 2019 2:49 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: How can Sikhi save me from my depression
Replies: 1
Views: 404

Re: How can Sikhi save me from my depression

I am 18 years old and was born into a Sikh family in the UK. I have wanted to seek help for ages but do not want to worry my parents as I have no clue how they would react. I wanted to reach out to this wider community (some of the stuff I am about to say is very extreme and please do not report me...
by loveforsikhi
Wed May 15, 2019 3:42 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Different Caste - what to do
Replies: 2
Views: 2326

Re: Different Caste - what to do

SSA everyone. I would like to start by saying this is an extremely difficult situation for me and I would appreciate honest feedback So I am Ahluwalia, my girlfriend is Jatt We are at the point we would like to pursue marriage however her father is very traditional and wants her to marry only a Jat...
by loveforsikhi
Wed May 15, 2019 3:39 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Mistakes with Sikh man
Replies: 3
Views: 3436

Re: Mistakes with Sikh man

Greeting, I have been in a serious relationship with a Sikh man for 2.5 years. I am older than him, caucasian American and have kids from a prior marriage. When we met, I refused him, saying I was not appropriate for him with his parents, as he has never been married. However he pursued me with a v...
by loveforsikhi
Wed Mar 13, 2019 11:37 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Secondary infertility. Struggle
Replies: 4
Views: 3271

Re: Secondary infertility. Struggle

Hi all, I'm going through a very hard time right now. I know I should be granted that I have a 7 year old son who was conceived so easily. My husband and I have tried for a second for the last 3 years and today I found out IVF has failed. I feel so alone, distressed and heartbroken. I know this is ...
by loveforsikhi
Mon Oct 22, 2018 12:27 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: work place harassment for sikhs... how to deal with... India
Replies: 1
Views: 1550

Re: work place harassment for sikhs... how to deal with... I

I have been through work place harassment of all sorts ranging from jokes to comments on my looks to humiliation in meetings by indirect references. I work in a central government job in India. We don't have a strong HR team to back me. Can anyone share some legal measures that I am entitled top bu...
by loveforsikhi
Thu Sep 27, 2018 8:36 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Meeting my stepmom for the first time
Replies: 2
Views: 2504

Re: Meeting my stepmom for the first time

Early next month, I’ll be meeting my future stepmom for the first time. She is from Colombia but currently resides in San Francisco, CA. My dad met her on one of his business trips to the state and since then, my father keeps on travelling from our place here in New York to CA for like twice a week...
by loveforsikhi
Mon Sep 17, 2018 6:56 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Mom wants me to marry her bestfriend's son
Replies: 2
Views: 2289

Re: Mom wants me to marry her bestfriend's son

Here in Asia, arranged marriage is not new anymore. And to my family, it’s something that we need to follow. Yes, it is a culture of our lineage that we need to embrace and respect. Trust me, it is never a good idea. Last month, my mom planned a blind date for me. She set me up for a romantic dinne...