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- Fri Nov 28, 2014 12:40 am
- Forum: Questions and Answers
- Topic: Work - Seeking Guidance
- Replies: 1
- Views: 393
Work - Seeking Guidance
WJKK WJKF. I have started a new job 2 months ago. I am struggling to cope with the demands of this job but I am trying my best. I am usually someone who works well with other people but I keep unexpectedly rubbing everyone the wrong way and things which are so minor get escalated. The only saving gr...
- Tue Jun 04, 2013 10:05 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Someone help me
- Replies: 9
- Views: 3844
Re: Someone help me
Mandy, I can sympathise with your situation - it is difficult to be torn between your potential partner and your parents. I got married when I was 22 and at the time I did not understand or realise that life is more than your relationship with your husband - it is your career, your studies, relation...
- Tue Jun 04, 2013 6:40 am
- Forum: Health and Wellbeing
- Topic: how to deal with depression
- Replies: 19
- Views: 23750
Re: how to deal with depression
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh, Thank you for your replies. I am trying to find hobbies to stay busy in and looking into the tulsi tea suggested by singhbj. My family lives overseas so it's difficult for them to visit me. I don't think my depression is stress related, all I want to do ev...
- Sun Jun 02, 2013 1:40 am
- Forum: Health and Wellbeing
- Topic: how to deal with depression
- Replies: 19
- Views: 23750
Re: how to deal with depression
Thank you so much for your reply! I have spoken to my doctor before and he has also advised me to stay busy with hobbies etc. but I don't find any joy in trying new hobbies. I feel like I am in a black hole with only negative thoughts to keep me company. Things which would gave me joy 2 weeks ago ha...
- Fri May 31, 2013 10:17 am
- Forum: Health and Wellbeing
- Topic: how to deal with depression
- Replies: 19
- Views: 23750
how to deal with depression
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh, Over the past 3 years, I have been dealing with depression - on and off. Six months ago, I thought I had dealt with the depression, become a more positive person and learned to live and enjoy the present moment. Over the past 10 days, I have fallen back i...
- Sat Mar 16, 2013 7:27 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Sikh marriage problems
- Replies: 18
- Views: 6188
Re: Sikh marriage problems
Hi RR_7, This may not seem like great advice, but no one knows your family, your boyfriend and what you want more than you do. I don't believe parents consent regarding marriage is a concern in Sikhi, the final and ultimate decision lies with you. I would say, definitely think your decision through....
- Mon Dec 17, 2012 9:50 am
- Forum: Questions and Answers
- Topic: guidance
- Replies: 9
- Views: 1280
Re: guidance
Thank you for your reply! I agree, I believe this decision needs to come from within and there is no point of forcing your spouse to do something against their will, it will only lead to problems. All I can do is hope that he starts to feel the same way I do. I don't mean to pry, but may I ask which...
- Thu Dec 13, 2012 8:48 am
- Forum: Questions and Answers
- Topic: guidance
- Replies: 9
- Views: 1280
Re: guidance
Thank you so much for your post! Above all, your words have reaffirmed my thoughts and I hope one day I am fortunate enough to take Amrit and continue learning on this path.
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!
- Tue Dec 04, 2012 11:02 am
- Forum: Questions and Answers
- Topic: guidance
- Replies: 9
- Views: 1280
Re: guidance
thank you for your response, i will do my best to summarise his views - 1. he feels that he earns an honest life 2. he is grateful for everything he has in life 3. he is happy with his life (and his inner self), and doesn't feel that he needs to make any changes 4. he does his best and tries to assi...
- Tue Nov 27, 2012 11:33 pm
- Forum: Questions and Answers
- Topic: sikhs dont believe in kundalis right?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 7812
Re: sikhs dont believe in kundalis right?
When I was engaged, my dad (my family is Sikh) decided to visit a pundit and see how our kundali's matched up. The pundit advised my dad that if the wedding went ahead, I would have severe health problems (and possibly lead to death). My dad then decided to go and visit five other pundits, who also ...