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by Romesh Kumar
Sat Aug 17, 2019 5:29 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Do we listen to the Bhagat as much as the Guru?
Replies: 4
Views: 6388

Re: Do we listen to the Bhagat as much as the Guru?

Sorry for my simple wording but I’m still a novice. We all know not to question the word of Guru, however are the words of Bhagat’s such as Bhagat Kabir as important to us as words of Guru? Should they all be taken the same, as the word of Guru? Or from a realising that this is a followers views an...
by Romesh Kumar
Mon Sep 24, 2018 9:39 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Marrying someone who worships a guru
Replies: 3
Views: 3366

Re: Marrying someone who worships a guru

I don't need to go into details as your post itself speaks of them.
This is a serious and complicated dilemma.
Withdrawal/break up at this stage is best for both of you, otherwise both of you will live with a problem for rest of your life.
by Romesh Kumar
Wed Sep 05, 2018 8:15 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Marrying 'Second' Cousin
Replies: 2
Views: 1280

Re: Marrying 'Second' Cousin

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguruji ki fateh, I am a UK born boy, parents originally from Punjab. I think this is more of a cultural question more than Sikhi as I don't know if I should mention this to my parents, I like my mums brothers wifes sisters daughter (My mami's sisters daughter). Does anyone...
by Romesh Kumar
Wed Sep 05, 2018 8:11 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: parikarma
Replies: 11
Views: 21082

Re: parikarma

It is simply a cultural custom and tradition denoting respect and complete surrender.
by Romesh Kumar
Sat Jun 16, 2018 1:08 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Are girls in Punjab non virgin these days?
Replies: 5
Views: 6110

Re: Are girls in Punjab non virgin these days?

Hi I'm a Sikh guy.Currenly I live aboard.I came abroad when I was 15 with my parents I'm 24 years old I want people of Punjab to answer this question as they are best placed to answer this question. I myself am a virgin.I never had any gf in my life.I went to India Punjab Patiala 2 years ago and my...
by Romesh Kumar
Sat Jun 16, 2018 1:04 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Meat & Alcohol in House
Replies: 2
Views: 1614

Re: Meat & Alcohol in House

Sin is in the eye of the beholder. Clearly your wife will not be happy with meat and alcohol in the house because she feels that it would be a sin. I ask you, why would you put your wife in this position? Is having alcohol and meat in the house that important to you or is it "a matter of principle"...
by Romesh Kumar
Wed Dec 06, 2017 5:23 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Is IVF and Surrogacy acceptable in Sikhi?
Replies: 3
Views: 1847

Re: Is IVF and Surrogacy acceptable in Sikhi?

Gurfateh ji, I have a medical condition in which the doctors has said that I might not be able to have kids in the future and if i do it will be a very difficult process. I am currently seeking traditional treatment but only guru ji has a say in this. I am currently single, tho my parents are looki...
by Romesh Kumar
Sun Dec 03, 2017 11:11 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Caste System: Are Sikhs hypocrite?
Replies: 23
Views: 9600

Re: Caste System: Are Sikhs hypocrite?

A different perspective. Strictly speaking, Jatt is not a caste. It is a tribe, outside the caste system. More of an out caste. Our Gurus abolished the caste system and gave Jatts an equal status. Jatts claimed equality by shouting superiority in defiance. That is, no way am I your inferior, I fact...
by Romesh Kumar
Mon Nov 27, 2017 1:21 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Marriage
Replies: 4
Views: 1645

Re: Save my marriage

Hello all.I want to know if there is any path that I can do to save my marriage, My husband left me with our 6 year old daughter, my mother in law played a major role in brainwashing him As she and me don't get along at all But I deeply love my husband and my daughter and cannot think of life beyon...
by Romesh Kumar
Sun Nov 26, 2017 11:02 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Caste System: Are Sikhs hypocrite?
Replies: 23
Views: 9600

Re: Caste System: Are Sikhs hypocrite?

So we are all in agreement that Sikhism is an ineffective religion and Sikhs are generally hypocrite as they strongly believe in the caste system? So what would be the solution for is lower castes then? What should we do? Main reason behind continuation of caste system and caste based discriminatio...