Bindasgirl, Thank you for replying to this post, it really means alot. Especially when sometimes, you feel as if you are the only person in this situation. Then you come to realize, that many people are in the same shoes. Loving and caring for someone so much, and not being able to be there for them...

I value the truth more than I can explain, but i'm forced to live a double life and lie like the song goes "and I lie, not because I want to, but because I need to all the time". The truth is, Sikhi and punjabi culture is on two polar opposites. Sikhi says that nothing is beyond Hukam, and our punja...

I don't believe that you have to marry a Gursikh or even a Sikh to have Sat Sangat, I feel that always keeping Waheguru in your heart and mind, and uttering Waheguru is Sat Sangat itself, and that you can find Sat Sangat amongst Like minded individuals, no matter what race and religion they belong t...

Hi, I think that we're all created a certain way for a reason, and I feel that noone can truly and nor should they try to change another person. Personally, I don't believe in pre-marital sex but I also don't shun intimate (physical) relationships with the person you love. Although, I do feel that a...

Personally, I feel as if who are we to Judge who is a true Sikh? we don't have the right to judge anyone. God will decide that. There's no use in pointing fingers when our own fingers aren't clean. In my own life, other Sikhs have accused me of thinking too highly of myself and thinking that i'm a b...

It has been a year or more, it has been a while since I have had scissors to my hair (let alone a trim). I can’t even remember how long it has been since i’ve done so, and that’s how long it has been. Being unable to remember is a amazing thing and feeling in itself, my long (uncut) hair has become ...

Aussie ji, It seems tonight, I was sent here for a reason after a long time. One, to receive your kind support and another to support you as well. I understand that what your family went through has been very painful and devastating for you, but I always stronlgy believe that Waheguru gives us exact...

Aussie ji,

Thank you for that, yes we are most definitely serious and committed. As far as practicality goes, I think all is fair in Gods court. If it's meant to be, it'll be.

Thank you for your support, I really appreciate it.

Harinder ji I would like to congratulate you first =) you are blessed to have met such a amazing person, who knows the value of love and commitment. God bless you both. Hope you both are always happy! I really do love him, and maybe this is exactly what's meant to be- in the same way that it worked ...

I don't know what is right and wrong in this situation, my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We have been together for a year now, and although I love, respect and care for him alot the distance is starting to hurt me. Somedays i'm fine, and somedays i'm not. I can't bear the thou...