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by rusty_sim
Mon Jul 28, 2014 5:00 pm
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Sexual thoughts all the time !!!
Replies: 5
Views: 3855

Re: Sexual thoughts all the time !!!

Excessive masturbation with porn will cause erectile dysfunction when it comes to actually having sex. Porn is fake.
by rusty_sim
Tue Apr 08, 2014 4:02 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Should sikhs enforce the dress code and Turban?
Replies: 68
Views: 22626

Re: Should sikhs enforce the dress code and Turban?

ਦੁਇ ਧੋਤੀ ਬਸਤ੍ਰ ਕਪਾਟੰ ॥ Ḏu▫e ḏẖoṯī basṯar kapātaʼn. You wear two loin cloths, and keep your head covered. ਜੋ ਜਾਨਸਿ ਬ੍ਰਹਮੰ ਕਰਮੰ ॥ Jo jānas barahmaʼn karmaʼn. If you know God and the nature of karma, ਸਭ ਫੋਕਟ ਨਿਸਚੈ ਕਰਮੰ ॥ Sabẖ fokat niscẖai karmaʼn. You know that all these rituals and beliefs are useless. ...
by rusty_sim
Wed Mar 12, 2014 10:21 pm
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Questions about death, evil, freewill etc
Replies: 8
Views: 4307

Re: Questions about death, evil, freewill etc

Thank you for your reply Punjabi G, I would really appreciate if others could discuss too please. I believe these are fundamental questions and make people actually question their belief. The concept of a God does not appear so warming if there is no devil. It appears the abrahemic religions believe...
by rusty_sim
Mon Mar 03, 2014 3:28 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Questions about death, evil, freewill etc
Replies: 8
Views: 4307

Questions about death, evil, freewill etc

Hi I have struggled to find answers to these questions. Could somebody please help me out with reference to the SGGS. - What happens after death? - Is one's destiny already written, Do humans have free will? - Why does God allow bad people to hurt innocent people? - Is man allowed to take justice on...
by rusty_sim
Fri Feb 07, 2014 4:50 pm
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Turban - Personal Conflicting Problem
Replies: 5
Views: 1512

Re: Turban - Personal Conflicting Problem

Very well written Vikram

@OP, let me tell you from personal experience, don't let unhappiness with your hair ruin your relationship with your parents. I left home for that reason. I never cut my hair but when I realised how delusional they were about hair, I couldn't be in that environment
by rusty_sim
Sat Dec 21, 2013 4:09 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Facebook deletes photo of gay Sikh kissing man
Replies: 12
Views: 3096

Re: Facebook deletes photo of gay Sikh kissing man

I disagree with the homophobic sentiment in this thread. Afaik there is no condemnation of homosexuality in sikhi. What is written against.. is lust. If this guy is in a relationship with his partner then there is no issue. In the other thread you have turban wearing guys gang beating some poor guy....
by rusty_sim
Tue Oct 29, 2013 3:59 am
Forum: Health and Wellbeing
Topic: Developed beard patches under one side * Alopecia aerta bar
Replies: 8
Views: 19226

Re: Developed beard patches under one side * Alopecia aerta

Minoxidil can be purchased in a pharmacy but is widely available online under the brand name Rogaine as a foam or liquid. There is also plenty of generic, cheaper minoxidil available. Some information about minoxidil can be found here http://www.dermnetnz.org/treatments/minoxidil.html They're not en...
by rusty_sim
Mon Oct 28, 2013 5:18 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: I need help... Please reply
Replies: 4
Views: 1880

Re: I need help... Please reply

Kabir wrote ਕਬੀਰ ਸੂਖੁ ਨ ਏਂਹ ਜੁਗਿ ਕਰਹਿ ਜੁ ਬਹੁਤੈ ਮੀਤ ॥ Kabīr sūkẖ na eʼnh jug karahi jo bahuṯai mīṯ. Kabeer, peace does not come in this world by making lots of friends. As you have already seen, people only care about you if you have something to offer them. That something could be love, friendship, m...
by rusty_sim
Mon Oct 28, 2013 5:03 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Why some people are born homosexual ? Is it god's punishment
Replies: 21
Views: 7708

Re: Why some people are born homosexual ? Is it god's punish

Hi Are you homosexual or asexual? It seems you're asexual but I may have misinterpreted your post because you didn't mention being attracted to other men. Sikhi doesn't state anything explicitly about sexuality. If you start listening to other people then you are simply hearing their opinion on the ...
by rusty_sim
Tue Oct 15, 2013 3:50 am
Forum: Health and Wellbeing
Topic: Developed beard patches under one side * Alopecia aerta bar
Replies: 8
Views: 19226

Re: Developed beard patches under one side * Alopecia aerta

hi Ravneet Here are my suggestions - remove stress of rubber bands, fixco etc. (use bobby pins instead, try conditioner) - eat well (high protein, low gi foods, supplements) and workout - apply minoxidil to the thinning areas (rogaine etc.) It's probably not as bad as you think it is. Sometimes we s...