Aren't people think beside love? example: Money, Family, Support, ect... I have question: how does an Individual acknowledge love from reality?,how can an person embraces these change for the love of that individual or group?. Can anybody clarify wouthout the message of religion?

I have question my dad is a alcoholic for that last 15 years but my mom did everything in her power to help out my dad with his alcoholic disease but nothing has change so my question what can you do if all elements have failed

As atheists we can broke down any religion to show their flaws but to understand the spiritual path one must experience the path without judgement. As atheists we use logical to defend our arguments but for the spiritual path logical has no meaning. IS MONEY GOD?