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by ImperfectSikh
Sun Jun 27, 2010 11:29 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Is tolerance of intolerance really tolerance, or is it ...
Replies: 31
Views: 7212

Re: Is tolerance of intolerance really tolerance, or is it .

Imperfect Sikh, Just read your post and i just cannot fathom how someone who was supposedly a "strict sikh" could give up her faith so easily?? Its, again, sad and infuriating at the same time. I would rather die than give up sikhi, i mean look at the sahibzadhay...what a noble example and at such ...
by ImperfectSikh
Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:18 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Is tolerance of intolerance really tolerance, or is it ...
Replies: 31
Views: 7212

Re: Is tolerance of intolerance really tolerance, or is it .

Sikhing guidance, I guess i don't quite understand the tolerance issue. Tolerance in itself is quite a harsh term is often misused. Maybe the word should be understanding or openess.? Just an idea there. If you tell a youngster that if they show any interest in, or follow the faith of their loving ...
by ImperfectSikh
Fri Jun 25, 2010 10:42 am
Forum: Sikhi Discussion
Topic: Nikkie Haley called a raghead!!
Replies: 6
Views: 2744

Re: Nikkie Haley called a raghead!!

Haley, Jindal and America's new religious litmus test http://newsweek.washingtonpost.com/onfaith/panelists/aseem_shukla/2010/06/what_nikki_haleys_victory_does_not_mean.html Interesting read, but as the article says, these two Indian-Americans are genuinely ashamed of their religious heritage (actua...
by ImperfectSikh
Thu Jun 24, 2010 5:41 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why do Indian guys do this?
Replies: 7
Views: 3903

Re: Why do Indian guys do this?

TheEnlightenBeing wrote:This guys think grass is always green on the other side. They go back & infect some more girls with their newly contracted STDs.
I wonder if the moderators missed the thinly veiled racist generalization therein ?
by ImperfectSikh
Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:50 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: How do ensure democracy in Gurdwaras
Replies: 10
Views: 2893

Re: How do ensure democracy in Gurdwaras

Dear Readers, Gur Fateh. More and more Gurdwara mangements are becoming authoritative and autocratic especially in the USA and in Canada. i am not aware of the situation in other countries, but based on media news and newspaper reports, the situation in India is even worse. In Canada except for a f...
by ImperfectSikh
Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:29 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Why do Indian guys do this?
Replies: 7
Views: 3903

Re: Why do Indian guys do this?

I don't want to generalize here, but this topic has even been raised on this very discussion site. This behavior seems to be more common with Indians that are originally from India, over Indians that are born in the US, England etc. Why do Indian guys date girls out here, claim their undying love f...
by ImperfectSikh
Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:28 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Marrying a Hindu punjabi boy is crime for sikh girl??
Replies: 29
Views: 26097

Re: Marrying a Hindu punjabi boy is crime for sikh girl??

Sat Sri Akaal sister,

First, you need to leave caste out of this.

Second, I don't think your family is being very rational. This man is ready to become a Sikh. What more can they expect ?

Follow your heart and pray. I hope that the situation will soon resolve itself.
by ImperfectSikh
Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:25 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: need advice
Replies: 20
Views: 7262

Re: need advice

Respected elders and friends, I am thinking of ending my marriage and i need sincere advice as to weather this will be a right decision.I am a gursikh girl born and brought up in a gursikh very well educated professional family in punjab. I had an arranged marriage 5 years ago . My husband belongs ...
by ImperfectSikh
Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:23 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Caste System
Replies: 4
Views: 1922

Re: Caste System

Hi, I am a 25 year old Sikh girl. I have a problem with inter-caste relationships, or my family does atleast. My boyfriend of the last 7 years is Hindu Chamar, he has converted to Sikhism. My family won't accept our relationship because my family is Jatt. He has equal financial status, education st...
by ImperfectSikh
Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:16 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unplanned pregnancy with Sikh Man, don't know what to do...
Replies: 14
Views: 13439

Re: Unplanned pregnancy with Sikh Man, don't know what to do

Hello I am 22 years old and have been in a relationship with a boy from Punjab for almost 3 years. We have dated openly at our college, but he has insisted on keeping me a secret from his family and I was upset at first, but figured he would when he is ready to tell them. I graduated from college r...