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by sikhing guidance
Wed Sep 08, 2010 10:31 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: need some guidance re: marriage
Replies: 14
Views: 5334

Re: need some guidance re: marriage

I didnt know where else to go..i need to get this out of my system. I feel so hopeless and depressed right now. I have been crying on and off for the past week and i dont see a resolution to any of my problems. Even going to gurdwara yesterday didnt bring me that feeling of peace that i usually get....
by sikhing guidance
Fri Sep 03, 2010 5:00 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: The Merits Of Timely Marriage And Demerits Of Its Delay
Replies: 7
Views: 5730

Re: The Merits Of Timely Marriage And Demerits Of Its Delay

To the Original Poster I find that post extremely offensive. According to your views/the post, as a 33yo female who is unmarried..i am pretty much a inadequate on every level. In life, everyones circumstances are unique. I would love to have gotten married at an earlier age..but a number of factors ...
by sikhing guidance
Tue Jul 13, 2010 8:49 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unplanned pregnancy with Sikh Man, don't know what to do...
Replies: 14
Views: 13476

Re: Unplanned pregnancy with Sikh Man, don't know what to do

Who said anything about Indian or Sikh men only involved in these scenarios? Why does this issue upset you? Please do not take out guilt about your own actions onto me. I am a victim because my intentions were pure and I had no intention to use and discard someone. If you want to lash out at someon...
by sikhing guidance
Wed Jun 30, 2010 9:21 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unplanned pregnancy with Sikh Man, don't know what to do...
Replies: 14
Views: 13476

Re: Unplanned pregnancy with Sikh Man, don't know what to do

To the above poster, baby friend It takes 2 to tango. I am sick of hearing about how "the guy" was evil, cheap, uncaring etc. During your one year of dating, were these things not self evident?? You were an equal part of the relationship and also must shoulder part of the blame as well. You had unpr...
by sikhing guidance
Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:17 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Kara at the work place
Replies: 10
Views: 3831

Re: Kara at the work place

Do not let this pass..u have to take this action. I fail to understand how the kara interferes with making/delivering pizzas??? Clearly management is lacking common sense. In that case women should be asked to take off rings etc when working in commercial bakeries. I also fail to understand how a ka...
by sikhing guidance
Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:13 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Is tolerance of intolerance really tolerance, or is it ...
Replies: 31
Views: 7221

Re: Is tolerance of intolerance really tolerance, or is it .

Imperfect Sikh, Just read your post and i just cannot fathom how someone who was supposedly a "strict sikh" could give up her faith so easily?? Its, again, sad and infuriating at the same time. I would rather die than give up sikhi, i mean look at the sahibzadhay...what a noble example and at such a...
by sikhing guidance
Mon Jun 21, 2010 3:33 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unplanned pregnancy with Sikh Man, don't know what to do...
Replies: 14
Views: 13476

Re: Unplanned pregnancy with Sikh Man, don't know what to do

Hi babygirl I am sorry to hear you are in this situation. You definitely have some tough choices ahead of you. The most important thing is the life you have within you at this moment. What your partner did is shameful and please lets not generalize to punjabi or indian men, a few bad apples, doesnt ...
by sikhing guidance
Mon Jun 21, 2010 3:24 pm
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Is tolerance of intolerance really tolerance, or is it ...
Replies: 31
Views: 7221

Re: Is tolerance of intolerance really tolerance, or is it .

I found this post to be very depressing and at the same time infuriating. I have read the views of lee douglas and AM and while i understand where the both of you are coming from, i completely disagree. Perhaps, i am not that tolerant myself. In terms of my sikhi, i am, like everyone else still lear...
by sikhing guidance
Sun May 23, 2010 8:21 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: need some guidance re: marriage
Replies: 14
Views: 5334

Re: need some guidance re: marriage

SSA Again thanks for the advice. My bf (i hate that term, but what else to call him) did call up my mother and they had a pleasant discussion. However, after speaking with the both of them, their opinions and their take on the conversation they had with eachother, could not have been more divergent....
by sikhing guidance
Sun May 23, 2010 8:12 am
Forum: Questions and Answers
Topic: Interreligious marriage for Gursikh allowed?
Replies: 5
Views: 2079

Interreligious marriage for Gursikh allowed?

I was reading through the NY times weddings and celebrations section (yes to torture myself further, incase you are wondering, i have posted a topic in the relationship section entitled need some advice re: marriage). I came across this announcement and was really surprised! http://www.nytimes.com/2...