For the longest time, my mum has always bugged me about going to India, finding a nice Indian girl and getting married. I've always been against the idea, as I personally feel that someone born and raised in India, would not really share the same traits as someone who was born and raised outside of ...

I do agree, this issue is not just within our own people. I have friends that have dated Persian, Armenian etc etc and had the same issues. Guys claiming their undying love for the girl and go running when the folks come a calling. I went to an Indian social function this weekend just gone and most ...

I don't want to generalize here, but this topic has even been raised on this very discussion site. This behavior seems to be more common with Indians that are originally from India, over Indians that are born in the US, England etc. Why do Indian guys date girls out here, claim their undying love fo...

I used to live in Vancouver and I'm afraid to tell you that this behavior is all too common among Sikh's in Canada. You're not the first to have to experienced this and you will definitely not be the last. I never understood how people moved from India to Canada, only to transgress into neanderthal ...

You're going to be wasting your time telling his wife, getting him to tell his wife etc etc. If you don't want to get rid of the baby, then your best bet now would be to go to court and get child maintenance payments from him. Get ready for court cases, DNA test etc etc. I understand that you do not...

Your best bet would be to go to the police and file a restraining order against him. I had to do something very similar to a girl that I met 2 years ago that suffered from bipolar disorder. For the most part she was okay, but when she suffered her "episodes" things got very ugly. She would cut her w...

@ConfusedSikhGirl, why don't you just move out and get your own place? What exactly are you expecting to hear from people on this site? Seems like you can complain about everything, yet make no effort in trying to fix your life. You're 26 right? What's stopping you, you're an adult, not a child. My ...

I'm a Sikh guy and I have really long hair. That turns people off. I don't wear a turban and like long hair (guess I'm a rocker at heart). Most girls I meet out here freak out that I have long hair. Funny thing is, they then complain that I do nothing to my hair and it's in better condition than the...

One question? When you want to buy a car, what do you do? You take it to AAA and get them to run an inspection on it. If the mechanic comes back with dangerous faults, what do you do? You walk away. No different to buying a house. Take what you are seeing now as only a fraction of what things are ye...

I spent some time living in Vancouver Canada (originally from the UK), but I now live in Los Angeles. I cannot tell you how deeply entrenched the "Sikhs" were in Vancouver over the whole caste system. It was like I'd walked into a black hole and gone 1000 years into the past. These people call thems...