India's young Sikhs defy tradition, doff turbans

March 31st, 2009 by Rama Lakshmi (Washington Post) Source: www.thestar.com

CHANDIGARH, India – Text messaging with one hand and holding a cup of milky tea in the other, spiky-haired Amandeep Singh Saini, 27, recalled the year-long battle against his traditional Sikh parents to cut his hair.

"I was 14 then. I wanted to jump into the village pool and play in mud. The long hair and the turban were always in the way. It took half an hour to tie the turban every morning," said Saini, a doctoral student in Punjabi literature.

After he cut his hair and discarded the turban, his two brothers followed suit. "My mother wept, my father was angry, but I was stubborn," he said.

"I look around the campus today, and there are so few turbaned Sikhs."

The shrinking number of young Sikhs who have long hair has alarmed many in this religious minority. Community groups say only 25 per cent of Sikhs younger than 30 follow the practice. Young Sikhs say a desire to assimilate, as well as the hassle of combing and tying up long hair, is pushing them to give up the sacred symbol of their faith.

In August, four students petitioned the high court after they applied to a medical college under a Sikh quota but were denied admission because they had cut their hair.

"The case ... has become part of dinner-table conversations everywhere. People are asking, `What am I? What will I be after the judgment?' It is unsettling," said Gurminder Singh Gill, an attorney for the Shiromani Gurdwara Parbandhak Committee, an elected forum of Sikh clergy whose rules are designed to prevent the dilution of Sikh symbols. "The court ruling will impact future interpretations of the word `Sikh.'"

Faced with the recent decline in turban-wearers, the community is thinking up ways to draw young people back to the tradition.

A group called Akaal Purkh Ki Fauj, or the Army of the Timeless Being, organizes Turban Pride Day in April, sends volunteers to schools to teach turban-tying and has introduced a software program called Smart Turban, which helps pick a style.

Since 2005, the group has held Mr. Singh International, a pageant for turbaned Sikhs.

"We need more turbaned role models for our young," said Navnit Singh, who created a 6-year-old turbaned cartoon character, Rony Singh.

"He can get his friends out of any sticky situation," Singh said. "I want kids to think the turban is cool."

In the early 1980s, Sikh extremists insisted on turbans and beards. Then, in 1984, Indian prime minister Indira Gandhi was assassinated by her Sikh bodyguards in retaliation for having the army storm the Golden Temple, a Sikh shrine, to rout radicals holed up inside.

Violent anti-Sikh riots erupted, and thousands were killed, touching off years of bloodshed.

"Many Sikhs cut their hair and discarded their identity to escape police brutality," said Ishwinder Singh Chadha, a member of the Institute of Sikh Studies.

Back in the college cafeteria, Saini and a turbaned friend, Sukhjeet Singh Sandhu, discussed their faith.

"Every fold of the turban of a devout Sikh is like a historical chapter of his blood-soaked history, which every Sikh carries with him with great pride and dignity," said Sandhu, 26.

But he trimmed his beard, he said, because "campus life demands it."

Comments

The source.

First of all we have to look at the source of these kind of news.When we look at that then we got the truth these all are anti sikh elements those try to change the look of sikhs.After that we need to ask question to our self do we need amandeep singh sani kind of persons?EVERY FOLD OF OUR TRUBAN OF A DEVOUT SIKH IS LIKE A HISTORICAL CHAPTER OF HIS BLOOD -SOAKED HISTORY,WICH EVERY SIKHS CARRIES WITH HIM WITH GREAT PRIDE AND DIGNITY.

Amandeep Singh Saini -- A coward

Amandeep Singh Saini is a coward.He himself have proved.We dont want cowards in Sikhism. Better let him enjoy.Time will come when he will himself regret. Guru Ji is watching.

I do not believe in hygeinic

SOME ANTI-SIKH CHARACTERS UNDER THE GUISE OF SIKHS ARE TRYING TO DELETE MY POST BUT NOT SUCCEEDING !!!!!!!!!! I do not believe in hygeinic or religious side of shaving or not shaving hair.But I believe that there is nothing better or more beautiful than maintaning religious identity. It is a kind of devotion and meditation combined with a kind of service to the community. It is show of committedness, trust and respect to something we believe in. If we want to do something then there are many ways, if we do not want to do that then there are many reasons and excuses. As my name suggests , I am a non-sikh who follows sikh way of worship. I can never ever be ready to believe that there is any disadvantage of being sabat saroop in any sphere of life in any part of the world. I have been to whole of India followed by about 16 countries in asia,africa and europe. Yes, every individual is entitled to personal choice and that is a quite different and private affair. One does'nt need to be a sikh or non-sikh to look handsome, he needs to be handsome. Sikh boys....., do you see anyone more handsome and sucessful persons in India than Dr Manmohan Singh, Montek Singh Ahluwalia, General J.J.Singh, Capt Amrinder Singh, Sukhbir Singh Badal, Harbhajan Singh, Navjot Singh Sidhu and 100s of thousands of sikh personalities ??? My last comment sounds cheap but just for you to try to think that, have you seen the picture of any mythical or historical gurus who look more handsome than sikh gurus in general and Sh Guru Gobind Singh Ji in particular ?????????

Shame on Sikhs these days.....

There is a saying "Latton ke bhoot baaton se nahi maante". Ask any trimmer very politely to keep hair and wear turban, he will literally laugh on you. There is a need to take strict actions on this. The sikh youths have become the cowards. Instead of making others follow the sikhs, they themselves are following others because they consider themselves as inferiors to others.The only thing that required is to instill self-confidence in them. There is a mis-understanding among the sikh guys that by becoming clean-shaven, they will become smart and self-confident. They need to understand that Its not just a matter of being more convinient by being clean-shaven, its about being the followers and not leaders. Today morning I was reading a news in the HT about a Sikh Model Sonny Chatewal. He didnt cut his beard. He didnt drop his turban by still he was chosen by the Modelling agency to walk on the ramp. Its all about your confidence level. If you are confident enough then you can reach to the Everest and if you are not confident enough, you will be a looser for whole of your life. There is one more saying "Jehda Lahore budhoo, oh Peshore budhoo". Anybody who has not guts, he will be a looser even if he becomes trimmer. Sikh guys who are self-confident, they never change themselves. ONLY THOSE WHO LACKS THE GUTS CHANGE THEMSELVES. This is a sort of prestige issue as well in some castes in sikhs. Lets talk about Jatts. Around 80% of Jatts are clean-shavens. It is said that "Jattan da munda ho ke vaal nahi katwaye". Moreover anybody who keeps beard is rewarded the names like Pappa, baba etc. specially in Punjab. Girls have the major contribution in this. They just want their life-partners to be clean-shavens. Pick up any news-paper and you will easily find "Clean-Shaven Preferred". If girls dont get the clean-shaven sikh ghuys then they just try to find a non-sikh partner. In love marriages, 70% of the love marraiegs are with the clean-shavens and non-sikh guys.The wives of many friends of mine just dont let them wear turban and have beard. Sikh guys these days just try to give their justifications for not wearing turban. They say that at the time of Guru Gobind Singh, they had to fight and nobody including hindus was clean-shaven at that time. I just want to tell them that GOD ordered Guru Gobind Singh to start the new religion and give this identity to them. The day when GOD will tell these sikh guys to be trimmer, then everybody will follwo them. Before contradicting to gurus first of all sacrifice all your family for the sake of others, then definitely we will follow you.

To be commended

Any efforts to promote and teach turban tying should be commended. However I would like to point out that the best place to learn about turbans is from role models from within ones family while growing up. The father or other men in the family should teach the pride with which turbans can be worn. If they will not teach, or do not wear turbans, or themselves are not respected in the family then it is unlikely the youth will wear turbans and kesh.

Unrelated Pictures

How come pictures that are not related to the story are displayed repeatedly on Sikhnet? Recently there was the demostrations of the burning of Gurduara in London- and the pictures were obviously not accurate. Now on this article again, incompetent Rama Lakshmi has written a very biased article on washington post and the picture is not related. Infact this picture is not even posted on either washington post or thestar. Picture looks like a school campus or univ where Turbans are being promoted.

"Spirituality without religion is like a lemonade without lemon"

Picture has been corrected.

Thank you.

"A sound man's heart is not shut within itself but it is always open to other people's hearts. If I am true enough, I feel the heartbeats of others above my own."

Rony Singh Dream Books Available in USA

"We need more turbaned role models for our young," said Navnit Singh, who created a 6-year-old turbaned cartoon character, Rony Singh.

"He can get his friends out of any sticky situation," Singh said. "I want kids to think the turban is cool."

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Rony Singh Dream Book

Navneet Singh, is very creative gursikh from Chandigarh, India, who has been back bone of many multinational companies and one of the producers of first ever animated movies (Sahebzaadey,Baba Banda Singh, Sundri fame).
He has produced a Wonderful Dream Flip book. In order to strengthen his hands and provide all out support, we need your help in promoting and marketing these Flip books locally. Please read the following news and check the attached poster or contact him directly at navnit@littlemagicwords.com for further information.
Please see if you can help him in promoting this product.

http://www.expressindia.com/latest-news/date-with-dreams/399711/

Date with dreams

Discover the 12 keys to unlock your dreams and make them spring to life. Rony Singh's 2009 Dream Flip Book, conceptualized by city's Navnit and Jaspreet is a unique concept finding takers in India and abroad

It's a calendar, it's an activity book, it's a motivating tool, it's Rony Singh's 2009 Dream Flip Book which implores you to join the gang of three on an adventure to unravel the secrets of how to make your dreams come true. Flip open the pages and find a new key every month to unlock your dreams and make them spring to life! Rony is the 'Cool Guy', Jassie Kaur is 'The Google' and Mishi is 'Miss Haughty' who take you through the 12 months of the year, stressing on one quality for every month, with wit, humour, interesting illustrations and a brief profile of people who are an inspiration for success.

Conceptualized by Navnit Singh, the creative head behind hit animation films like Sahibzaadey, Rise of the Khalsa, Sundri, the characters of the creation were in Singh's head for a long time, "the inspiration for this are my children. I wanted my son and daughter to be achievers, but was not giving them a structured approach. The flip book is a result of my own failure to tell them what needs to be done to realize their dreams.'' His company Little Magic Words, which has brought out this is inclined to promote reading among children and inspiring them to write as well and also use educational tools to give them a platform to showcase their creativity. "And this is our big step towards it all," Navnit admits that he has no false expectations of making the readers instant successes, but to inculcate in their lives the value of words like dreams, plan 'n' action, focus, experience, can do, hard work, discipline...Pitching in with the concept and the
fabulous illustrations is Jaspreet Kaur, who simple enjoyed every moment of the process and Vikram Jit Sharma, who brought in all the colour.

What's more, each page has space for an activity which involves the child and the visual appeal is tempting to the eye. "There's no preaching and we have turned around several statements to make it witty and a lot of research was involved to pick people who would inspire and relate them to each quality. The choice was large," Pankaj P Singh of Browser is the Editor of the same and has been deeply involved with the venture from Day One. Though aimed at children, the flip book, points out Navnit and Pankaj, has a universal appeal, with already orders pouring in from the US, Australia, Canada and Navnit hopes that this will now be a regular annual feature from the company. Till next year then!

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