Is masterbution a sin?

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Re: Is masterbution a sin?

Postby Gurjant Singh » Sat Apr 27, 2019 7:01 pm

Sat Sri Akal,
Is masturbation a sin? That is an interesting subject to talk about. I will write about it and in the end I will draw the conclusion.

Prior to you belong to any religion, you are a human being. You have your human senses to satisfy.
Guru ji himself said this
ਇਸੁ ਤਨ ਮਨ ਮਧੇ ਮਦਨ ਚੋਰ ॥
There is a thief in human mind.

Guru jee have known about this chor. But what is the real chor here?
Urge to having sex is not different to eat food. Sex is something without which all human or animal race wouldn't exist.
A male when it hits puberty, In perfect world he should have a sexual partner then which should last till the couple gets old enough to loose sexual urges. However this is not the perfect world we live in.
Total honesty - I have tried myself to control sexual urges, I lasted 7 days I was just not even watching any women on YouTube videos. Total avoidance. And then on 8th day, I had sexually charged dream which I didn't like, and I ejaculated in my dream.
This is something which I have tries few times. The dream I had was sexual in nature. The more you elongate the urge, the horrible the dream got.
Over these practical kind of experiments, and these conclusions made me think is it good to have illicit dream or is it good to watch women with less cloths and get over it. You guys draw the conclusion, for me I would get over it watching something.

Keep in mind that different people have different sexual orientations (Gays and Lesbians) those people are also creations of Guru jee.

HOWEVER !!, Your must always be seeking a partner for yourself. Which should originate out of love and not lust. In the mean time you can relieve yourself.
NEVER EVER do thought abuse - I will be clear and open here. Thinking about FORBIDDEN thoughts or Looking at someones's women, and other thoughts which are not accepted in society is WRONG. That is the real CHOOR.
Watching normal porn as if they are performing for you. They are actors. again remember about though abuse and choose your categories thoughtfully.
If anyone here believes that they never had to ejaculate in dreams, that is something which for human race is not possible.
Above all what I wrote is my personal view.

This is my take on this.
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