Confused92 wrote:They call me a slut, a disgrace. I don't drink, smoke or go out and have sex. Am I the only one who sees the entire situation as stupid? Forgive me for my horrible grammar.
If you are living in western countries then you should go to nearest police station and report the matter in depth and details.
You can equally seek the help of a lawyer who can further connect you to Home or Immigration dptt or some nearest human rights or child-care organisation/s to intervene.
If you are living in Punjab then I am really sorry, can not say anything except to endure it and submit yourself to the circumstances (or your life will be endangered).
If you are living in any of the remaining other states of India then report the matter to your school/college authorities who will advise what to do next.
I wish you all the best and peace of mind.
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You greeted the sangat here with WJKK WJKF ,I dont think i have ever greeted the sangat here with fateh , you probably have more similarity with Amritdharis than you imagine or want to accept
That being said, I usually wonder why some Indian kids call themselves rebellion for a start you are 21 still living with your parents, your college fees is probably paid by your parents, but you dont want to follow your parents rules ?, that's not called being rebellion, that's called being a typical desi ( i am desi as well, so its not to put anyone down)
In short you want to have the cake and eat it as well and since you are not able to do that , you are frustrated with the situation.
You have a few options
a) Earn a living , pay for college and live by yourself, i dont think they have locked you in the house, so you are legally free to move out (Living alone isn't as easy at seems, quite possibly you will find living with rules easier)
b) Live with your parents ,develop trust with them, slowly and steadily prove to them that you are more reliable and trust worthy than they take you to be.
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